Tinder may not be the number one recommended place for people to meet their soulmate, but it is fun and slightly addictive either way. Most guys who are on the dating app agree that it is a numbers game, and if a girl is even moderately good-looking, he is going to swipe right. But even guys with very loose standards have to draw the line somewhere.
There are some things girls do on Tinder that can turn guys off and cause them to instantly swipe left (reject them). While these things are not true for every male out there, they are ones a general consensus can agree on.
The Biggest Tinder Turn Offs For Men,
Being Overly Specific About What They Are Looking For
No one wants to feel like they are going to be evaluated from head to toe from the get-go. If a woman has a long list of requirements, it makes guys feel like they already have something to live up to, and that is a turnoff. They should be able to be themselves.
Not Showing Personality
If a guy messages someone, it is probably because they are interested in them. Even if at first they are only attracted to your looks, that doesn't mean they don't want to get to know your personality. If a girl is only a pretty face, guys are going to be less likely to ask her out.
Overdone, Generic Marilyn Monroe Quotes
Nothing says "basic" like a Marilyn Monroe quote. Or anything along the lines of "live. laugh. love." It just shows a lack of originality.
Completely Ignoring Him
You obviously thought I was attractive enough to press that heart button. So when I build up enough courage to actually message you, it's a turnoff to be completely ignored. What's the point of being on here?!
Hiding Their Face in Pictures
If you are going to be on a dating site that is largely based on looks, at least be confident enough to show your entire face. Stop hiding behind sunglasses. Guys are going to accept anyone who is even remotely attractive, so you really don't have to be insecure.
Seeming to be high maintenance
If you are dolled up in every picture and seem like you might be high maintenance, it can make a guy a little wary. If you LOOK like that, how might you actually act if you start dating? If you can be down to Earth, show that.
Not Having a Sense of Humor
Tinder is not the most serious dating website out there. While it shouldn't be one big joke, it's a turnoff if a woman can't have a sense of humor. Even if you are using a cheesy pick up line, they should be able to recognize that you are trying to be funny.
Acting Like a Snob
We get that you probably get a lot of guys messaging you. But don't write us off before you have given us a fair shot. Especially if you accepted us as a match!
All Group Pictures
Which one are you? I don't even know if you are blonde or brunette! Not having any solo pictures shows a lack of confidence – instant turn off.
There Are Guys in Every Picture
I would hope that you wouldn't be on Tinder if you had a boyfriend. But that doesn't mean I want to see you kissing guys cheeks in every picture. I don't care if he is your best friend, it is still strange.